(on the anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising and as the Pentagon renames the USNS Harvey Milk)
When fear calls us to forget, when bigotry seeks to rewrite and erase, we remember, God. We will remember.
We remember Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and all your beloved children who participated in the Stonewall Uprising, demanding dignity, respect, and justice. We will remember.
We remember your beloved child Harvey Milk. Even as the Pentagon removes his name from a U.S. naval vessel. We remember his service in the U.S. Navy. We remember his service in San Francisco. We remember efforts to recruit us, to recruit us for the fight to preserve democracy from those who are trying to constitutionalize bigotry. We remember his challenge and inspiration. ”you have to give them hope. Hope for a better world, hope for a better tomorrow, hope for a better place to come to if the pressures at home are too great. Hope that all will be all right.” We give thanks for the hope Harvey Milk gave, the hope he still gives, and we will remember.
We remember individuals and organizations who have worked through the years for the recognition, rights and inclusion of the LGBTQIA2S+ community within society and the church. We will remember.
We remember with thanks those engaged in this work and ministry who we knew, and perhaps worked with: who we know and work with now: (say names aloud or silently in your heart). We will remember.
We remember with thanks those engaged in this work and ministry whose names we did not know, whose names we do not know, and yet who touched our lives and made life better, more whole, more just. You know their names, God. You made and love each one. And we will remember.
We remember and confess that some organizations and individuals (myself among them) have been too careful, timid, and fearful through the years. We accepted the status quo and failed to challenge the oppression endured by your beloved LGBTQIA2S+ children. Forgive us. Renew us. Inspire us. Help us find our voices. Help us locate our places in the struggle. We will remember. And by your grace, may we do better. We pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.
words in italics are a paraphrase of Harvey Milk’s words in “That’s What America Is” a speech delivered by San Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk, June 25, 1978 (Gay Freedom Day); words in quotation marks are from “You’ve Got to Have Hope” by Harvey Milk delivered on June 24, 1977; note that like many public speakers (and preachers) Harvey Milk presented the same ideas in numerous speeches; words in bold italics are stage directions for your prayer
known all buffeted by storms and blasted by tornadoes
Comfort all who grieve
the death of family, loved ones, or friends.
Comfort all who mourn
the death of dreams,
the loss of pets,
the destruction of property.
Work healing
in all who are injured in any way.
Ease anxieties.
Calm fears.
Provide strength to cope
and courage to hope.
Protect and guide first responders
and medical personnel.
Support efforts to recover and rebuild.
Inspire responses to provide appropriate aid.
We pray in Jesus’ name.
Amen.
This one came out in response to the recent storms and tornadoes. In many situations and circumstances, our prayers seem inadequate. Yet still we pray …
I sat on a chair atop an elevated slab of concrete at the Albuquerque BioPark Zoo. Lucy and her grandmother (Tricia) sat on a bench facing me.
I did not think quickly enough to say that magic is Gandalf’s gig, not Gimli’s. I did recall my one magic trick guaranteed to impress everyone.
“Watch me pull a bald head from a hat,” I said.
Slowly and dramatically I removed my hat to reveal … a bald head.
When Lucy asked for another trick, wishful thinking took over.
“Watch me pull a head with hair from a hat.” Major failure as the revealed pate was once again bald.
“My head has hair,” laughed Lucy kindly as she came to stand beside me.
“Let’s see if this works,” I mused. I placed the hat on her head. “Abracadabra,” I intoned. I removed the hat and revealed a mass of hair.
“My turn,” declared Lucy. I went to sit with Tricia.
“Pocus-pocus,” Lucy chanted. I’m not sure what was supposed to happen. And in the end it does not matter.
The magic and wonder of the day lay not in any tricks we did or did not perform.
The magic and wonder lay in the imagination and love of a child.
The imagination … … that transformed any elevated space into a stage where one could dance with abandon or direct a magic show … … that realized the ramp to the observation deck at the monkey exhibit provided an entry point to a ship of some sort and we needed to help each other on board … … that envisioned a chair as throne … … and that made music with abandon on a suspended wooden xylophone.
The love … … demonstrated by utter comfort and absolute confidence in her grandmother’s arms … … shown in kindness to other visitors … ,,, and expressed in appreciation for the creatures with whom we share God’s creation.
As I give thanks for Lucy’s imagination and love, I hope I can recover some of that myself. For it is a joyful, joy-inspiring, joyous way to live.
Dust accumulated through years of storage brings coughing and sneezing, itching and wheezing. Faded images stir vibrant memories of people and places, life and love shared. Sorrow and joy, joy and sorrow mingle with the dust. And the question lingers: why are there tears?
17 September 2024 Germantown, Louisville, Kentucky
Inspire us, God, to do one thing. One thing for justice. One thing for peace. One thing for love. Inspire us, God by doing one thing to do more. More for justice. More for peace. More for love. This day.
Every day. Through Jesus, we pray. Amen.
inspired by the Guns to Garden panel, James Atwood Institute for Congregational Courage
I remember, God. I remember sitting in church on Neville Island— hard wooden pews, my parents, brother, sister all together. I remember singing: “Holy, holy, holy! Merciful and mighty! God in three persons, Blessed Trinity!” And I did not understand.
I remember, God. I remember sitting in many churches, sometimes in pews, sometimes in chairs behind the pulpit. I remember singing. “Holy, holy, holy! Merciful and mighty! God in three persons, Blessed Trinity!” And understanding flickered dimly.
I remember, God. I remember choosing hymns for congregations of fewer than ten people for congregations of hundreds. I remember asking people to sing. “Holy, holy, holy! Merciful and mighty! God in three persons, Blessed Trinity!”
And through the years, with repeated singing, I give thanks, Triune God, that some understanding began to grow. You are One. You are Three. You are Three. You are One. You exist in eternal relationship, forever bound together in love.
And the human creature, created in your image, is created for relationships— created to love … to love you, to love one another, to love creation, to love ourself.
Lead me, God, to understand more fully this mystery. And more importantly, God, lead me to live this mystery: living love each day as you, Creator, Christ, and Holy Spiri live love. “Holy, holy, holy! Merciful and mighty! God in three persons, Blessed Trinity!” Amen.
Walking. Aunt Pat’s. Playlist based on Love & Hope in the Age of Coronavirus by Ester. My Love Is Your Love – Whitney Houston Holy – Jamila Woods All These Things That I’ve Done – The Killers Flashed Junk Mind – Milky Chance Put Your Records On – Corinna Bailey Rae Calling All Angels – Train Cecilia and the Satellite – Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness Bold As Love – The Jimi Hendrix Experience I’ll Follow the Sun – The Beatles Lovely Day – Bill Withers I Know Him So Well – Elaine Paige & Barbara Dickson Anything at All – Over the Rhine Nowhere to Go – Snow the Product Eachother – Grace Potter feat. Jackson Browne, Marcus King & Lucius I Believe That We Will Win – Pitbull May This Be Love – The Jimi Hendrix Experience
Walking. Gym in the Apartment. The first song was added in response to a post by Alonzo. The middle section is half of a playlist, Love & Hope in the Age of Coronavirus by Ester. The final song was given to me by Sean. Backlash Blues – Nina Simone Sunday Best – Surfaces Biking – Frank Ocean Ends of the Earth – Lord Huron Angel from Montgomery – John Prine & Bonnie Raitt 42 – Mumford & Sons Somewhere over the Rainbow/What a Wonderful World – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole Blackbird – Brad Mehldau Where the Light Is – Surfaces How Can I Keep from Singing – Eva Cassidy Anything at All – Over the Rhine Lean on Me – Bill Withers “40” – U2 Bold as Love – The Jimi Hendrix Experience When Life Is Good Again – Dolly Parton Trying to Keep It Together – Norah Jones Do What You Can – Bon Jovi Sal Tlay Ka Siti – Book of Mormon