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Paul Daubenspeck, Jr.

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Paul Daubenspeck, Jr.
November 29, 1926 – January 11, 2020

Written on behalf of his stepchildren for his memorial service.

 

 

We give thanks to God for the life and love and faith of Paul Daubenspeck.

We give thanks for his service to our country. When the call came to go, Paul responded.

We give thanks for his work ethic. He worked long and he worked well.

We give thanks for his love for his family, for the years shared with Esther, for the experiences shared with Larry and Paula and their families.

We give thanks for his marriage to our mother. For more than 40 years they shared life. That could not always have been easy.

We give thanks for his willingness to share his knowledge. Whenever we had a question about cars or home repairs, we did not use Google. We called Paul.

We give thanks for his volunteer work. He did so much for so many; building homes and baking cookies stand out.

We give thanks that he freely shared his recipe for grilled venison.

We give thanks that he was a great grandfather. A great-grandfather by blood. And a great grandfather through the love and support provided to his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

We give thanks for his deep faith. He participated fully in the life of the church and served as an elder. Mark remains ever grateful that Paul participated in his ordination.

We give thanks for times of grace and joy, and yes, even for moments of challenge.

We give thanks for memories that live close to the surface and wash over us with warmth and for memories that will arise in days to come.

We give thanks to God for the life and love and faith of Paul Daubenspeck.

Mark Koenig
Paul Koenig
Patty Kelly

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Each time

Each time we say farewell
may be the last time.
Until it is, and when it is,
this I know:
I love you;
I will remember you;
I am grateful
for all that has been,
all that is,
and all that may yet be. 

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Back again

Each new grief
snags every old grief,
long-buried emotional landmine
which, when tripped,
bring old pain
freshly back again.

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January

Some will know,
others will wonder,
why every year
I am so glad to see
January go.

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Death comes

Death comes
Grief rages
Life continues

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Thanksgiving 2019

Thanksgiving 2019 was spent at the Shire in New York. Sean and Henrik came and visited. Cooking went well with the exception of dropping a bowl of oysters on the floor. They would have been a new recipe. Ah well. Some other time.

The bison steak was the star of the plate.

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23 November 2019

Walking with Henrik. Chelsea.
Walking. Morningside Gardens
Of Time and Rivers Flowing – Richie Havens
The Other Side, Welcome – Ruby Ibarra
Are You Gonna Go My Way – Lenny Kravitz
Cement – Citizen
Amazing Grace/Nearer My God To Thee – Ladysmith Black Mambazo
John Henry – The Mammals
Alam’i – Koudede
Don’t Say Okay – Mary Black
State of the Nation – George Clinton
Dreamboat – Troy Andrews
Transmetropolitan – The Pogues
Girl from the  North Country – Bob Dylan
Moving On – Sweet Honey in the Rock
Broken – Bear Fox
Dime Mi Amor – Loss Lonely Boys
Treasure Island – The Chieftains

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10 November 2019

Walking. Chelsea. Sometimes with Henrik.
Dreamscapes: Canyon People – R. Carlos Nakai
So Far Away – Carole King
Daniel and the Sacred Harp – The Band
In da Club – 50 Cent
Touch – Sarah McLachlan
Steelers football

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9 November 2019

Walking. Chelsea. Sometimes with Henrik.
Lean on Me – Bill Withers
I Am the Walrus – The Beatles
There’s No You – Louis Armstrong and Oscar Peterson
I’m Ready – Tracy Chapman
Sister – Indigo Girls
Pyramid – Spyro Gyra
Keisha Complex – Shea Diamond
These Walls – Kendrick Lamar
Find Your Way – Adina Nyree
Time to Go – Black 47
Another Brick in the Wall – Agua Clara
It’s All Over Now, Baby Blue – Bob Dylan
Love You Forever – Zendaya
Fight the Power – Public Enemy

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8 November 2019

Walking. Chelsea with Henrik
Walking. Morningside Gardens with Boxster.
Walking. Times Square, 9/11 Memorial, Bowling Green Park, Battery Park with Bethany and Julia.
Walking. Staten Island with Melodee.
Walking. Over 20,000 steps.
Following the North Star – Rhiannon Giddens
Heartland – Eric Bogle
String Quartet No. 1: I Allegro – George Walker, Son Sonora String Quartet
Song of Bangladesh – Joan Baez
Buskers – Vedran Smailovic & Tommy Sands
Lemme Get That – Rihanna
Hope – David LaMotte
I’m on My Way to Freedom Land – Sweet Honey in the Rock
Thing Called Love – Bonnie Raitt
Something to Talk About – Bonnie Raitt
Not the Only One – Bonnie Raitt
Dimming of the Day – Bonnie Raitt
Silver Lining – Bonnie Raitt
I Me Mine – The Beatles
May There Be Peace – Joanne Shenandoah
Dance to the Music – Sly & The Family Stone
I Shall Be Released – Bobby McFerrin

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